My dream was like a film playing out, there was going to be a nuclear bomb going off and I had to try and get everyone together and I was trying to get my girlfriend to come with me as well. I think we were going to a space ship which was landing to rescue us.
I told my girlfriend to get on the space ship but she wouldn't, she said “No I have to help other people as well”.
Then the ground cracked beneath us and I was getting really frustrated that my girlfriend wouldn’t get on the space ship. We both started running around trying to find somewhere safe but there were looters and muggers everywhere and I just wanted to find somewhere safe to go. We ended up on the top of a hill looking at the sky and then we said I love you.
Then we saw a plane crash and I woke up with a jolt.
Let me explain:
Your dream suggests that you feel as though you have to protect everyone from any eventuality, even things that haven’t happened yet and also things that are out of your control. Bombs are usually symbolic for explosive situations that can change the way your life is set out, this will link with the fear dream scenario where you have to learn to face your fears. It would seem that your biggest fear is of things going wrong; you would see this as a disaster because you want everything to run smoothly and stay the same. (Fear of change)
The space ship providing the escape route is a way for you to understand the fact that when things do go wrong you expect a 'way-out' to turn up and rescue you, you also want everyone to go along with your plans and ideas because you feel it is the best thing for them as well and you get frustrated when they have other ideas. Space ships also represent the unknown and feature when you do not really know what is going to happen next and also when you have to deal with the un-charted areas of life or relationships.
In your dream you want to protect everyone, your girlfriend on the other hand is telling you she sees herself as the person who looks after everyone and perhaps she is letting you know that you do not need to look after her. This in itself would be viewed as a disaster to you because her ideas might clash with your ideas about who does the looking after in a relationship.
In the dream your girlfriend will not allow you to protect her and insists on helping everyone as well. Perhaps you are coming to terms with having to allow your relationship to find its own level footing, a new balance that you haven’t had to find before. You are very similar characters and this is what might cause the cracked ground in your relationships foundations, as described in your dream.
In the dream your girlfriend will not allow you to protect her and insists on helping everyone as well. Perhaps you are coming to terms with having to allow your relationship to find its own level footing, a new balance that you haven’t had to find before. You are very similar characters and this is what might cause the cracked ground in your relationships foundations, as described in your dream.
The hill is symbolic for the uphill struggle that it feels like trying to get two strong personalities (who want to be in control) to find order and a sturdy ground base.
Because you tell each other that you love each other even though you have all this going on, it means that you both want to find a way to find balance and make things work because after all that’s what you have to do when you love someone.
Then a plane crash happens which affects you both, plane crashes symbolizes how hopes and dreams can come crashing down, this is a typical symbolic gesture of your situation because as relationships develop from what you expect in comparison to what you actually get your ideas and dreams quickly come back down to earth.
Relationships are hard work to maintain and to keep 'flight' you must work it all out together. Of course you are different and have your own ways of doing things but this doesn't mean you cannot find a level ground that you are both content with, it’s a sort of meet half way in the middle in order to create balance and harmony within a relationship and love is the perfect reason to do this.
Relationships are hard work to maintain and to keep 'flight' you must work it all out together. Of course you are different and have your own ways of doing things but this doesn't mean you cannot find a level ground that you are both content with, it’s a sort of meet half way in the middle in order to create balance and harmony within a relationship and love is the perfect reason to do this.